The Paradox of Possession: Longing for What We Lack

 The Heir to the Dynasty is a book rich in observations about human nature, power, and the intricacies of family. Within its narrative, one particularly poignant quote rings with universal truth: "When we have something, we don't pay attention to it. When we don't have it, we strive to have it, whether or not we need it." Our tendency to underestimate what we have and relentlessly pursue what we don't have, even if that pursuit is ultimately disastrous. The first part of the quote, “When we have something, we don’t pay attention to it,” speaks to the phenomenon of taking things for granted. It’s a deeply ingrained human tendency. Familiarity breeds complacency. Objects, relationships, and even our own health become background noise, unnoticed until their absence brings them to the forefront. Think of the everyday conveniences we often neglect: reliable electricity, clean running water, and the company of loved ones. We only truly appreciate their value when they’re threatened or lost. This lack of appreciation stems from several factors. Firstly, we are habitual beings. Our brains are wired to filter out the familiar, allowing us to focus on new and potentially threatening stimuli. This efficiency comes at the cost of ignoring the blessings that surround us. Second, the hedonic treadmill plays a role. We adapt to positive experiences by reducing their impact on our overall happiness. Over time, what once brought us immense pleasure gradually fades into the new normal, losing its appeal. The second part of the quote, “If we don’t have it, we strive to have it, whether or not we need it,” delves into the realm of desire and aspiration. This highlights our innate desire for more, often fueled by external pressures and societal expectations. We are constantly bombarded with images of what we lack: a newer car, a bigger house, a more exotic vacation. This constant exposure cultivates a sense of inadequacy, causing us to relentlessly pursue these perceived needs. The phrase “whether or not we need it” is particularly insightful. It suggests that our desires are often divorced from true need. We are driven by need, not necessity. This can lead to a cycle of perpetual dissatisfaction. We acquire the desired object, experience a fleeting moment of satisfaction, and then quickly move on to the next perceived deficiency, leaving us chasing an ever-elusive goal. This pursuit can be especially destructive when it comes to more abstract concepts, such as power, status, or recognition. The relentless pursuit of these things can lead to unethical behavior, strained relationships, and ultimately a hollow victory.  The relevance of the quote extends beyond individual behavior, offering insights into broader societal trends. Consumerism, with its constant emphasis on new and improved products, thrives on this very principle. Advertising preys on our insecurities, highlighting what we lack and promising satisfaction through acquisition. This creates a cycle of relentless consumption, fueled by the illusion that happiness is just around the corner, in the next purchase.  Ultimately, the author’s observation serves as a powerful reminder to cultivate gratitude and critically examine our desires. By consciously appreciating what we already have, we can free ourselves from the cycle of constant striving and find contentment in the present moment. It challenges us to question the source of our desires and to distinguish between real need and fabricated need. In a world driven by relentless ambition and consumerism, this ability to distinguish between true value and fleeting gratification is more important than ever. The lesson from “The Heir to the Dynasty,” embedded in this insightful quote, is a timeless reminder to appreciate what we have before it’s gone and to be mindful of the desires that drive our actions. 

There Are No Ugly People, Only Ugly Characters

 The saying “There are no ugly people, only ugly characters” is a powerful statement that challenges our conventional notions of beauty. It encourages us to look beyond physical appearance and consider the profound influence that personality and inner qualities have on how we perceive others and ourselves. While societal pressures often prioritize aesthetics, this quote suggests that true beauty lies within, shaped by our actions, thoughts, and overall character.  This notion directly contradicts the widespread influence of the media and advertising, which often bombard us with idealized images of physical perfection. These images often create unrealistic expectations and contribute to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. However, the quote offers a refreshing counter-narrative, suggesting that what makes a person truly attractive is not their physical appearance but rather the beauty of their inner self.  What exactly constitutes a "bad character"? Traits like cruelty, dishonesty, arrogance, and selfishness can certainly tarnish a person's attractiveness, regardless of their physical attributes. Someone who is outwardly beautiful but constantly displays negativity, manipulates others, or lacks empathy may be considered less attractive than someone with less conventional traits but a kind, generous, and compassionate spirit.  The quote also encourages us to cultivate positive character traits within ourselves. This suggests that focusing on developing qualities like integrity, empathy, and kindness can make us not only better individuals but also more attractive to others. By striving to be good people, we are actually shaping our own beauty.  Of course, the idea of ​​beauty is subjective and influenced by cultural norms and personal preferences. However, the quote’s core message remains relevant: true attractiveness comes from the inner self. While physical appearance may initially attract attention, it is ultimately character that defines a person and leaves a lasting impression.  In conclusion, the saying “There are no ugly people, only ugly characters” serves as a powerful reminder to prioritize inner beauty over fleeting physical attractiveness. It encourages us to cultivate positive traits, treat others with kindness and respect, and ultimately recognize that true beauty lies within the heart and mind. By focusing on nurturing our character, we can transcend the superficial and create a more beautiful world, one person at a time.

How money or power changes our perceptions

The power of money and power. In life, we often encounter people who try to compensate for their shortcomings by demonstrating material wealth or their position in power. The proverb “I may be small, but when I sit on my wallet, I become taller than everyone else” perfectly illustrates this tendency. But what actually lies behind this ostentation, and how does it affect our society?  Money has long become a symbol of power and status. In many societies, material wealth is associated with success, influence, and even intelligence. Therefore, it is not surprising that people strive to demonstrate their financial situation in order to feel more confident and significant. Those with real political power always demonstrate that they are an unavoidable factor, and we are obliged to take their point of view into account and suffer the consequences, even if we harm other people. For some people, displaying wealth or demonstrating power is a way to compensate for personal complexes or feelings of inferiority. When a person feels insecure in other aspects of their life, they may try to compensate for this through material gains or challenging those who are weaker. This tendency also has its negative consequences. It is often a false impression that material wealth or power is a criterion for success. Should we be critical of the messages that flood us from everywhere and not allow advertising suggestions to manipulate us? Should we focus on our personal qualities and skills and move forward? Should we build valuable relationships with the people around us instead of dividing ourselves? Should we seek inner satisfaction, not external recognition? It is important not to succumb to the illusion of superiority that money or power can create. True power lies in our personal qualities, not in the thickness of our wallets or the position of power we hold.

Problems communicating with people?

To be as brief as possible with my analysis, I will tell a small but very old tale. A forest bear got stuck in the forest thicket—ha here, ha there—does not move! Good thing the woodcutter was passing by. He put the ax down, rescued the bear, and let him go. When Bear saw this, she overtook the kindly man and said to him, Long live, woodcutter!" You saved my bear. Do you want to be friends? He agreed—how could he refuse the terrible beast? Out of gratitude, the bear welcomed him and, before sending him away alive, stronger, reached out to kiss him. Oh, Bear, how awful your mouth smells!" The woodcutter frowned. The bear bent down and quietly thought, "Hit me with the ax now." "What are you talking about, Bear?" How can I hit you? You're my stepsister! "Hit me or I'll eat you!"The woodcutter was afraid and what to do—he listened to her. He swung his ax and brought it down on her neck. The bear growled, turned its back on him, and left. Years past. One day the woodcutter ran into Bear again in the forest. "Good meeting, brother!" She was pleased for him. The man was frightened at first, but when he saw that there was no trace of the deep wound on her neck, he embraced his old acquaintance and asked, "How are you, Bear? Have you recovered from the wound I gave you with the axe?" The bear looked at him sadly and replied, "Listen to what I'm going to tell you, man." A bad wound heals, but a bad word is not forgotten.  God has indeed given us a brain and a mouth to speak. But we humans sometimes speak without thinking about the consequences. Without putting ourselves on the other side of the coin. We think that we are always right. We don't think about whether we offend or hurt someone. We cannot know what situation the person in front of us was in. What he went through before he started talking to us. It often happens that we offend without suspecting. However, we often get offended if they say something we don't like. Therefore, we begin to divide ourselves into friends and enemies.

Whoever does what, in the end, does it for himself.

 This folk saying is very true. Looked at from many angles, in the end, the conclusions turn out to be true. Regardless, the consequences can affect many people. There are times when we are not in the mood, and it has a big impact on our actions and thoughts. That's why it's good if we plan to start doing something that matters to others; it's good to improve the mood. How? Psychologists say that if a person is not in the mood, it is enough to look at the flames of the fireplace or the fish in the aquarium. Also, seeing a smiling child can instantly put you in the mood. Imagine that you are going to a job interview. Isn't it better to be in a good mood? You are going on a first date; isn't it better to present yourself as a positive person? You have to invest the accumulated savings of a year or two in the stock market, and the mood can lead you astray. On the road, if you drive, you will not be concentrated, and there are many such examples.It is embedded in our very psychology, and we are always looking for the happiness and goodness that lie ahead. If we try to give smiles to people and they smile back, Won't we feel better? No matter how unfair life seems to us, we can at least make it beautiful for us. Because of our mood, we may have helped a person, who may subsequently help an entire community or, on the contrary, cause harm. According to the laws of physics, everything comes back like a boomerang. No matter how much we bang our heads, the saying applies with full force to every person.

Author Sezgin Ismailov

What do successful people have in common?

Have you ever wondered what the richest and most successful people have in common? It is certainly not their place of birth, the color of their eyes, the color of their skin, whether they had divorced parents, etc. What they have in common is that they read books. And a lot of books. You must be wondering who these special books are. There is hardly a success bible. There are many different books specifically for financial success. The reality is that they can point you in the right direction. How to organize your budget and how to invest. Yes, they are also a factor in decent financial discipline. The truth is very different. There is a story hidden in every book. In this story, you can find an opportunity for your dream. Fall in love with an item or service that you can develop. Then sell this idea of yours. Try to read one book a week. Let them be in different genres. Figure out what exactly you like. Then read at least a dozen books in this genre. Think and conclude again. You don't lose anything. You learn a little more about life. There are books that motivate. There are stories that can unleash your potential. There is a character from the books that inspires. You have the opportunity to get an idea. Any book can give you a million-dollar idea. You only need one idea. It could be your key to a door you want to be behind. There are many ways to sell your idea. If the idea is brilliant, you will always find sponsors. May the idea prosper, for the benefit of people and nature. I just know that everyone can rediscover themselves by looking at themselves from different angles. Books help with that. As far as I know, there is no better friend than a book. The knowledge they impart helps you become successful in your endeavors. The conclusion is that what successful people have in common is books.

Author Sezgin Ismailov

Black cumin craze - does it really help health?

 Recently, there is a craze in Germany to consume black cumin or its oil. I have no idea about other countries. They are definitely crazy about him here in Germany. I visited quite a few sites to actually find out if this is the case. I read quite a few comments and article. One article is described as the gold of the Pharaohs. In others, it is written about him in the Bible and the Koran. There were quite a few comments on Amazon. I definitely know from my parents that everything in small quantities is useful. And if possible, use seasonal foods. Always not to eat the same food, one after another for the day. I respect every herb. Because if the Lord created, then it has a purpose in this world. At least to keep the balance. Almost everywhere it is claimed that: Black cumin is rich in antioxidants, anti-inflammatory compounds, essential oils, vitamins and minerals, including thiamin, riboflavin, niacin, vitamin B6, folate, calcium, iron, magnesium, phosphorus, zinc and copper.Most articles state that black cumin may have benefits for: Immune System: Can stimulate the immune system and fight infections. Inflammation: May have anti-inflammatory properties that can be helpful in chronic conditions such as arthritis and asthma. Digestion: May improve digestion and relieve symptoms of gastrointestinal problems. Diabetes: May help regulate blood sugar and improve insulin sensitivity. Cardiovascular health: May lower blood pressure and cholesterol. About Cancer: Quite a few experts say that black cumin may have anti-cancer properties. Skin and Hair: Can be used to treat skin problems such as acne and eczema, as well as stimulate hair growth. How do they consume it. Seeds: Black cumin seeds can be added to salads, soups, rice dishes, breads and other dishes. They can be chewed whole or ground into a powder. Oil: Black cumin oil can be taken in the morning on an empty stomach, added to smoothies, or used topically on the skin. Tea: You can make tea from black cumin seeds by steeping them in hot water for 10-15 minutes. Dosage: The recommended daily dose of black cumin is 1-2 teaspoons of seeds or 500-1000 mg of oil. At least that's how it's written in many places. The most interesting thing in the Amazon reviews about black cumin is that you can find besides the positive opinions. Few and miraculous events. So what, they might be right. Still, faith keeps us going. I already bought half a kilo of seeds for my salads. I plan to try chewing with honey. Not that I need to right now, but like any human being I should try. From experience, the head does not hurt. For me, Swedish bitters is the universal medicine. There are also many articles about losing weight with black cumin. Apparently this is the new fashion. Hopefully there will be results for people.

Author Sezgin Ismailov

The Rise and Fall of Great Empires

 I am writing my fifth book about the unforgettable figures of history. I had to read a lot about personalities. Apart from them, I also learned indirectly about the past much more than I thought I knew. But I don't want to concentrate on the past, but on the future.Nothing has changed for thousands of years. At least human nature is getting greedier. Everyone who has led a strong country has sought to conquer another. To subdue her is a big deal. There are very few heroes of the past who were tolerant.  I just realized, for these two or three thousand, no one resisted. No matter how strong they were, they always fail in the end. It's just inevitable. As the Roman, Byzantine, Mongolian and subsequent orders have lost their greatness. Now looking at the politics of the big countries. Only words are great. No proper actions. Let's assume that now the USA is strong with its dollar, Russia with its territory, China with its population and production and Europe with its democracy. It is only a matter of time before the US loses its dominance, fueled by its bad policies.. Not immediately, but in the next 100 years neither will it be the most developed economy nor will the dollar succeed with its dominance. Bad management policy. It's one thing to pretend to be the world's policeman, it's another thing to make mistakes by giving weapons to some. Afterwards, give food to others who are shot with your weapons. We live in an age of technology and information reaches almost everyone. America is losing credibility with each passing day. Let's not comment on the dollar, for a few years people even believe in some kind of electronic money where one power outage and you have nothing. But they realize that it is safer than the dollar. Russia is the country with the most land, possibly the most natural resources. A country of good people and bad managers. One thing is for sure, the Russians have rarely come across a normal manager. No matter how much the Soviet Union tries to return its old borders, at most in the age of technology, Russia itself will eventually become smaller in territory. Whatever it costs to open its borders to those who wish and give an opportunity to increase its people than to conquer other territories. China as a supplier to the world is currently tame. But it's a ticking time bomb. While supplying the world and seeing the discontent of others. Because he goes out, feeds a dog to bark at you. but every criticism against it makes it stronger and more innovative. Over time, the danger of becoming very, very strong hides management risks that are unpredictable. Europe is old and has suffered a lot. He knows the consequences. It is between a rock and a hard place. For now, only between the USA, Russia and China. But the time will not be far when Africa will also be a factor. I'm not talking about the next ten or twenty years. But a hundred years pass quickly. But Europe is very divided in its thinking. It pretends to be democratic, but at the same time it is very duplicitous. It inculcates nationalism, and itself is a mixture of many nationalities. This also leads to division by religion. No idea, but some people don't learn from their past and teach others. I don't know a Jew personally, but there is no stopping why they don't like them. In history I learned that not only Hitler had something against them. They have had their problems since Egypt, then during the Inquisition. Whether it's religion or something else, you won't know until you ask your neighbor for some salt.Is it so important to dominate than to help? Apparently, when you sit in the seat of power, the human psyche changes.How the world exists has not changed. I guess there is no hope of normal human coexistence.

The repercussions of war on human beings have been studied.

So, who exactly is to blame? Put your hand up and think about it. Will there be a detrimental impact on humanity as a whole at the end times? When the time comes, I suppose. The reasoning that led to the rise of dictatorship in some countries brought about by particular persons. In order to achieve their goal of fame, they will do all in their power to make the presence of humans miserable. They look for methods to bring evil into the world rather than concentrating on the positive aspects of the situation. They have faith that it will propel them to the status of superstars. To put it another way, all they want to do is begin fighting. War breaks out amongst nations as a direct consequence of this. What is more, this is something that worries every single one of the other countries. For the same reason that the rest of us do, other outstanding leaders want to feel protected. In order to better support military operations, the funding has been increased. As a consequence of this, other programs, such as healthcare, education, and infrastructure, will either need to reduce their budgets or increase the salaries of public personnel. The military industrial complex is detrimental to all aspects of society and the environment. Although wealth is something that everyone has, those who are in positions of power are the ones who truly grasp the significance of power. For all living creatures, death is an unavoidable circumstance. There are certain individuals who, for whatever reason, will do whatever in their power to shorten the lives time of others. There is no resonance with me in this. Assuming that we have got at the topic of a person's upbringing. What is the reason that global organizations are in existence? The employees there are only paid a salary, and they are not given the opportunity to fulfill their contractual obligations. At initially, I had a negative attitude towards globalism. On the other hand, I have come to realize that this is possible for the typical individual to find a solution to their difficulty. In a perfect society, there would be no conflict because there would be only one authority that was recognized on a worldwide scale. This will, in the majority of instances, result in less paperwork. In the event that the general populace becomes dissatisfied, the numerous international leaders are among the few individuals who are capable of being ousted from power in a short amount of time. Having a Control group is essential to the operation of any organization. This is due to the fact that we are going to return to our Wild West roots. As far as I am aware, despite the fact that people have claimed to have made progress over the course of thousands of years, very nothing has changed. I am currently working on my fifth book, which is a biography of a real-life historical character. I felt compelled to acquire information about these deserving folks because their names were left as a stamp on the envelope. The level of my comprehension throughout the time when I was collecting the data was so limited. All that has happened is that there has been no change at all. Recent years have seen the development of completely new tools for the workplace. The only exception to this rule is information that is primarily of a historical character. I met an old man in 1990. Today, I am still able to hear him. Despite the fact that people have been getting well for a considerable amount of time, nothing has improved as much as it should have, Sezgin. Put together a strategy to guarantee that you are healthy. As a matter of fact, I concur with him. All of us, in the end, are accountable for the choices that are made with the money that we pay in taxes and the politicians that we choose to represent us.

Author  Sezgin Ismailov

People's problems?- They are unlikely to ever disappear

They are unlikely to ever disappear. There are millions of problems in one individual. The biggest flaw of a person is to always look for reasons for his problems in someone or something, this is already the biggest problem for the individual. It goes like dominoes. Especially if you use up your energy in this direction. In time it becomes like a boomerang. It goes back to him. No matter how educated he is, sooner or later a problem comes to him, and he, struggling to protect himself, becomes a participant in a problem. Regardless of whether he is calm or indifferent, he must take a side because of the circumstances and depending on the situation. Everyone knows that there is already one god, but it is perceived differently in different languages. Because of the ways of the prophets, division is a fact. The one problem that is not known may take another thousand years to solve. The other big problem is the different color of people's skin. While the colored man makes records for a country with a white population, he is applauded. But after a few hours, it is forgotten and in some shows, in a different light, the most colorful insults are thrown at him. People always blame others for their failures. Apparently, it's innate to us and I can't stop wondering if it can go away. However, people can come together and eliminate the gun companies. A very big problem for humanity. At the moment everyone is going to save the climate, so they may go to transform the arms companies into useful enterprises. Nothing personal. Just because of what Alfred Nobel left behind. I have no exact idea if it is a fabrication in a Paris newspaper after an article wrongly wrote about him instead of his brother's death. But his cause is great. But definitely, his words are “As for me, I wish all weapons…sent to hell where they belong…

Certainly, these important insurmountable problems if they disappear. It will alleviate the problems by nearly 90 percent for humanity.

Author Sezgin Ismailov